01-07-2020 10:52 AM - edited 01-07-2020 11:03 AM
Thanks @Faith-and-Hope 💖
How true re perfectionism. Yes, I am trying to relax and not let things bother me so much.
House is quite big and not so easy to keep perfect 😩 A never ending job. So I really need to not worry.
We have nearly an acre and I find it extremely hard when it's not tidy. I don't have the energy to do gardening, plus I'm not brave to use the ride on mower. 😂😳
I don't know who is going to do it with H out of action. Really need to sort that out. According to specialist/surgeon, it will be months before recovery.
Trying not to panic.
Ok, shower time.
Hope you have something nice happen today. 💖🥰🙏
01-07-2020 05:20 PM
@Faith-and-Hope Friday is the last day of term so a couple of days to go. I didn't get anything done after work today - too tired and too unmotivated so I will have to do a lot tomorrow. I have a little time off in the afternoon tomorrow so hoping I can get most of it done then before my meeting after school. Then I won't have as much to do Friday and I can enjoy the last day with the kids. I will be going in to work for a couple of days next week anyway so whatever isn't done I will do then. I have a lot to get organised for next term and have to meet with the teacher I will be sharing the class with also.
Tobes, Cat and myself fed so time to settle in, do a little work and then hopefully a really early night.
@Pippi29 There is no such thing as perfect Hon - each one of us sees things differently and has our own level of 'perfect' - and even then it is hard to attain. I like to see things now as 'the best that can be done' which leaves room for improvement but also satisfies our present thinking.
01-07-2020 09:09 PM
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