Lived Experience Forum

[SmilingGecko]

I'm really happy for you @Jessie21 life will start to move in a new direction for you now.  Lets hope this new move will start to get things happening for you.  Wishing you all the best in that regard.  I had a friend with Alzheimers who died about 8 years ago.  Its hard supporting them along the way and seeing them decline at the same time.  I can only say that I tried to be compassionate and understanding but it was really difficult as her family of origin was conflictual.  By that I mean there was elder abuse involved.  There was nothing I could do to stop it.  I know it must be hard watching from the sidelines your friend getting worse but just try and remember her the way she used to be - the bright sprightly self she was and the happy times you shares together

[Jessie21]

@smiling-Geko. Thank you for your support my dear friend, I suppose what makes it so frustrating is my specialty is dementia care and support. My friend is a very strong person, fiercely private and independent. She never had any children, married and migrated to Australia, her husband is struggling. Because my friend was definitely the boss in the relationship. I finally was able to get his mobile and I said if you need help just ring. Unfortunately I have to step back because of my mental health and if I was to try to intervene I know I would not be successful and all I can do really is just ring and just be her friend. I am now telling her you are my best friend ever and I love you. I remember you telling me about positive self talk. Last night I happened to listen to John Stephenson Positive healing sleep meditation, on utube . I have woken up completely chilled out .