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[Shaz51]

well @Ali11  @outlander , @Jacques , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @Determined , @Smc , @Owlunar 

mum`s specialist has rang me today and has cancelled everything until mum has another bowel obsruction  @Adge 

feelinf weird about this but this is what mum wants

[Shaz51]

hello @Former-Member 

feeling so uncertain about this but the specialist said we will still be there for my mum if she needs surgery again in the futher xxx

[Adge]

I would not wish a bowel obstruction on anyone @Shaz51

It seems better if preventative steps (treatments) could be taken.

The pain was unbearable (in my case), it crippled me - & it required immediate emergency surgery.

I hope your Mum does not have to face that situation again.

Adge

[Shaz51]

me too @Adge , mum has been home 5 weeks so far without any problems ,sooo finger crossed here xx

[outlander]

hope your mum doesnt get another obstruction @Shaz51 but glad to hear they are still there for her whenever she needs.

[Shaz51]

me too @outlander   xoxo

[Owlunar]

That's a tough one for you @Shaz51  - I can hear - but we all know your Mum is tired and really - had enough

I talked about this - she needs to be able to make the choice for herself and it will be easier for her if she does - it's hard for those in the audience - esp family - 

It's part of letting go - been there - hard yards

I'm here for you Shaz - from your second Mum

Dec

[Shaz51]

thanks my second mum @Owlunar 

[Shaz51]

i am sooo annoyed tonight my friends  @Owlunar , @outlander , @Adge , @Ali11 , @Jacques , @Adge ,  @Appleblossom , @Faith-and-Hope , @greenpea , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Former-Member 

I purred chicken and spagheti for mum and mr shaz is laughing so much about it ---- it is NOT funny anymore

[greenpea]

@Shaz51  Ahhh maybe a few pureed meals are in order for mr shaz