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28-08-2018 07:48 PM
28-08-2018 07:48 PM
Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!
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28-08-2018 09:18 PM
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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!
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28-08-2018 09:39 PM
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Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!
however i am worried of what they will find. if they find what they are suspecting it also means i probably wont be able to have kids either if that time ever arose. however would be more manageable with medications again wouldnt be able to have kids)
i dont really know what to do.
im trying to work out if getting the test done and getting answers (or not) is worth it or to just keep persisiting with it but it is mucking around with my hormones alot to.
im not really sure if this is making any sense at all 😕
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29-08-2018 04:01 PM
29-08-2018 04:01 PM
Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!
@outlander xo
You made perfect sense to me, I had a similar dilemma, after finding out about the Serious Spinal damage, & I was given a choice by the Neurosurgeon. I was so confused, frightened, stunned, & shocked, all at the same time. I had been over 12 months with the most agonizing pain, & symptoms, that I honestly have never know of in my life. I could have waited longer, & not gone through the surgery, att.
I know how hard it is to make such a life changing decision no matter what the health issue is, it still boils down to, what choice & why. From what you just wrote, if I were going through the same as you are, it would be a hard decision to make. It's all about what is best for your health, rite now, as far as I'm concerned, what will keep you safest.
Waiting, I do not believe is the rite choice, if you are meant to have children one day, you will. Rite now, your MH, & overall well being needs to be sorted out for your safety, & health. Now, the choice is yours ok, I am telling you what I believe, as I have been through the worse close call in my life, & I am glad I never let it go on any longer, as I can see the damage by leaving medical emergence, far too long. It's hard I know, trust in the ones who know best, & say a little pray to your, Higher Power (God) for healing, how ever healing comes.Then let go & let them do what will give you some form of healing, & knowledge, in some way, so your body, & mind, can rest, & be at peace, even if it's it only to do with this challenge in your life atm!
I LOVE You sincerly, & with all my heart outlander, & don't forget it!xoxoxoxo
Bella 🙂
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29-08-2018 05:09 PM
29-08-2018 05:09 PM
Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!
if i can work out what is wrong with me itll stop my guessing. there are some concerning symptoms which also affects my mental health like not having a cycle for 3/4 months at a time so the hormones build up and quite horrific cramping. my nurses is quite concerned and i do trust her..
i see the gp in 2 weeks so will talk to her then as she is the one who orders the ultrasounds, bloods etc so i might meantion it to her. if its what they suspect i can go on tablets to either stop or make things more regular and 'normal' in other aspects too.
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29-08-2018 11:00 PM
29-08-2018 11:00 PM
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I'm pround of you, outlander, my Spiritual Sister, best friend! You care so much about all, & you must do what's best,& most caring for the most important person in your life, being YOU!
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29-08-2018 11:04 PM
29-08-2018 11:04 PM
Re: I am- Overwhelmed & Traumatised I need your support!!
Thank you spiritual sister 💕
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03-09-2018 05:53 PM
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