WayAhead

Yes @Corny it is worryingly painful to me but my wife is just doing that on daily basis. We are drawing as a family because of her perfect camouflage as the nicest person in the world according to friends. So here we go, I did nuclear option destroying our family as my wife now selling around and even not crying at all on what was happened, I can not believe it. She gladly accepted it and start looking for work, setting her own life and just methodically start manipulating me to move out and leave her with our children. She even did not tell her family yet. Come back to control as much as possible and business as usual.

I have suggested she come back to Poland to her family where she has housing, well establish mother, brother, she just rejected that as I am crazy how I even thought that she leaves children here with me. She does not know how to open a bank account and have always did not like Australia (we immigrate here in 2007), and complained that she can not care for her elderly parents.

This is like a nightmare. I reckon I start losing sanity, I am going to my third psychologist tomorrow. I can't get how I got to that point. Sorry.