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  • Author : avant-garde
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  • Topic : Something’s not right
26 Dec 2024 02:01 PM
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I was talking to my new therapist today... she's asked questions about Delilah... she couldn't help but get angry at my church...

She made some valid points and I want to get your take on it...

 

We talked about the churches actions of not stopping her coming to church, but more than that, that they're enabling her to keep on sinning, partly by discouraging me from going to the police. 

We have proof of fraud, that is a police matter, it is not something the church is able to handle. 

But that any other sin, like sexual immorality, impurity, debauchery, etc, they are disciplined and asked to accept the discipline or be excommunicated. 

Their actions tell me that this sin isn't as big a deal as other more obvious sins.

If a hand causes you to sin you should cut it off...

Are sins of the mouth or the mind any more serious than sins of the flesh? 

It tells me that what she did is an ok sin, that it's ok to lie, steal, manipulate, because they're aware that it's happening and they have hope that she'll repent.

 

But what will the repercussions be if I were to go to the police...

 

@tyme @Macey @ENKELI 

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