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07-06-2020 06:33 PM
07-06-2020 06:33 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Yes @Shaz51 Bro & SIL here, trying to get a couple of jobs done.
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14-06-2020 07:12 PM
14-06-2020 07:12 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
@NatureLover, this thread is another one of mine
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15-06-2020 05:27 PM
15-06-2020 05:27 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
@Shaz51 wrote:@NatureLover, this thread is another one of mine
Thank you @Shaz51 for letting me know! I am still learning the forums 🙂
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15-06-2020 06:47 PM
15-06-2020 06:47 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
no pressure to read or respond my friend @NatureLover , but you are welcome anytime xxx
hello @Former-Member , @Determined , @eth , @Former-Member
we did mum`s gardening this afternoon , cloudy and cool but no rain
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15-06-2020 06:54 PM
15-06-2020 06:54 PM
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@Shaz51 wrote:no pressure to read or respond my friend @NatureLover , but you are welcome anytime xxx
Thank you ❤
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15-06-2020 08:30 PM
15-06-2020 08:30 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Did Mr Shaz help with the garden @Shaz51
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16-06-2020 07:23 AM
16-06-2020 07:23 AM
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yes he did @Former-Member
but I know he did not want to stay for a cuppa afterwards , but he did but just sat there saying nothing
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29-06-2020 04:22 PM
29-06-2020 04:22 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
hello @Former-Member , @Determined , @eth , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @Adge , @Faith-and-Hope , @Owlunar , @Jacques , @greenpea , @outlander , @Tortoiseshell
awww just got home from taking mum to the hospital for her leg to be redressed
the wound had to be scrapped -- ouch
and the nurse told us that i should get more support for my mum
( she knocked her skin on the wheeling walker) not a fall this time
awww the nurse went on and on
what else can someone do !!!!!!
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29-06-2020 10:01 PM
29-06-2020 10:01 PM
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Sometimes someone outside the family need to speak directly to the patient and this often helps them agree to more help @Shaz51 .
I would be gently but firmly telling the nurses that despite your best efforts your mum is resistant to getting the extra help and that if he or she could say something to her that would help change her mind you would appreciate it.
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30-06-2020 10:02 AM
30-06-2020 10:02 AM
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I agree with what @Former-Member says @Shaz51 . It's worth a try.
Is your Mum not eligible for community nurses to visit her in her home? Or does she live too far out of town? It would really change your life to have something like this in place, tho' I understand you so don't need anyone putting pressure on you and implying your care isn't good enough. Insensitive nurse indeed.
Take care, stay kind xx