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27-07-2019 11:42 AM
27-07-2019 11:42 AM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
I don`t eveen what to go out tonight -- i know mr shaz does not want to go
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28-07-2019 05:11 PM
28-07-2019 05:11 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Yeah @Shaz51 often we dont want to go out, but push ourselves. From the other thread it sounds it was for a really good charity and you have been so active.
It is good to keep doing those things and it helps us get through the other tougher things.
Also great to share the Carer's hat. If Mr Shz also gets clear carer skills he might manage his own mental health better.
Take Care Bella
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28-07-2019 06:37 PM
28-07-2019 06:37 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
ohhhh very true my wonderful friend @Appleblossom
sometimes we want to give up and not do things , but glad we did go
and mr shaz even won the drawing game last night
and Mr shaz even said that I spoke very well last night -- wowowo
mr shaz gets very tired from a certain point and needs to go home , but that is ok xx
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01-08-2019 03:45 PM
01-08-2019 03:45 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
helllooo and hugs @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @greenpea , @Ali11 , @Jacques , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Adge , @Determined , @Smc
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after not working for 2 days due to being sick , decided to work this morning , would be finished at lunch time and then have the afternoon off
dropped the tests off at the hospital and went to work
was I wrong , while working i got the biggest pains in belly ever , wow , did finish and was glad to be home
then had lunch and then had to take mum up to the hospital to get her leg redressed ,
the results were that mum`s skin cancer are bad ones and need to come out , mum has decided not to get them removed
3 hours later and we are home -- tired now
mr shaz just made me a nice cup of coffee
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03-08-2019 12:20 PM
03-08-2019 12:20 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Wow @Shaz51
I missed your post about the bad belly pains you got after working - but yes - Mr Shaz made you a cup of coffee which is really great to know about
Goodonyer Mr Shaz
I'm rather glad your Mum is deciding against having the rest of her skin cancers attended to - that would be an immense strain on her
She must have spent time in the sun when she was young - and enjoyed it - and she is getting on in years now and it seems that for her enough is enough
Harder fo you though
Dec
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07-08-2019 04:05 PM
07-08-2019 04:05 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
hello and hugs @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @greenpea , @Ali11 , @outlander , @Determined , @Smc , @Adge , @Faith-and-Hope , @Dec ,@Sherry
i was soo uncomfortable last night , lots of aches and pains ,felt like my a band of pain right around the middle , I think it was my scolisis playing up but not sure , soo wrote down the quesions to ask my encrinologist and kidney doctor on the 26th
my tests came back from the hospital and it is all ok
Mr shaz had gall bladder attack last night
mum`s leg is healing nicely , and she as ordered 4 meals with meals on wheels a week now
we did a big cleanup at mum`s today , taking things to the op shop and other things to the dump
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07-08-2019 05:40 PM
07-08-2019 05:40 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
@Shaz51, how are you feeling about your Mum's decison re. skin cancers? I agree with @Owlunar that it's probably the better decision, but it sort of says that your Mum's accepting that she might not be around long enough for the pain of the process to be worth the bother.
We've got that sitting in the bckground with my parents, particularly my Dad. He's been very clear for a long time that he doesn't want to linger if something "final" happens. Brain says it's the best choice, heart says I wish we could keep him forever.
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07-08-2019 06:34 PM
07-08-2019 06:34 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
I agree @Smc
About your Dad - if he doesn't want to "linger" if anything serious happens have you thought about getting a Do Not Resusitate Order organised for him so this is all legally understood?
Both my parents had these organised - both were elderly when their time came and there weren't any problems and personally - when my time comes I will be ready to go without any drama too
I have read some of your story - it can be really hard to have elderly parents - it seems you have a realistic understanding about your Dad
Dec
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07-08-2019 06:48 PM
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07-08-2019 06:57 PM
07-08-2019 06:57 PM
Re: Not sure what to do !!!
my yearly health plan is finished @Owlunar , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @greenpea , @Determined , @Former-Member
have to make a appt to get a new one