Not Coping

[ENKELI]

@tyme arra seems to think I was talking about them. The conversation with birdofparadise was about my ex friend and her 2 kids who were my God children who I supported emotionally and financially for 8 years only to have that friend almost destroy me around this time last year. All anyone has to do to is look back on the conversations I've had with several people over the past 6 months.

I'm in tears now and don't want to be involved with this forum

[Birdofparadise8]

@ENKELI oh no I'm so sorry. I'm here for you. 

I know you were talking about your ex-friend. 

[Former-Member]

Aw, @ENKELI 🤗🌺💜

if you were here I’d give you a big hug! Your kindness, gentleness, and empathy has lifted me up out of the loneliness of the turmoil, and for that, I just wanna say a heartfelt thanks 💜🌺🙂

you’re a special person with so much compassion and I always appreciate how giving and caring you are in moments of vulnerability 💜💜🌺🌺🤗🤗

[ENKELI]

@Birdofparadise8 I'm bawling now, being accused of saying something about another forum member comes as a shock to me. I won't go into how it's made me feel but the post in question is below. I mentioned ex friend immediately before the post and don't understand why arra thought I was talking about them

[Glisten]

@ENKELI  I will be having that sauna when I get back to Perth.

Having my birthday weekend with relatives in Newcastle.

G

[RiverSeal]

@ENKELI, sorry that you are feeling this way! You are a valued and respected member of the Forums community and have friends here. Sometimes other members can read things incorrectly or get the wrong idea about what is posted. 

Maybe taking a break for a bit and coming back to this with fresh eyes and a clear head, rather than thing you are going to leave the Forums. 

What can you do right now that has worked in the past if you have felt like this before?

Take care

RiverSeal 

[Birdofparadise8]

Oh @ENKELI, my heart is breaking for you right now. 

Maybe he just got confused. I don't want to speculate. 

I do understand the whole situation with your ex-friend, so maybe that is why. Some might not fully have the picture. 

Maybe we can try to move on from that conversation while things settle down for a bit. 

Do you have anything comforting with you? I wish I could give you a hug. 

I'll always be here for you, so know you're not alone. I also agree 100% with what @Former-Member said about you. You are a very special person, especially to me. 

I hope you don't want to leave. 🌸🫂🥰🌺👸🏼👑

I will let you borrow my crown if you would like. It might need to be straightened on your head, however. 

I just saw the photo. Oh, that was definitely about your ex-friend; I didn't even think of it being towards Arra. 

[Shaz51]

Hello @Former-Member , @Birdofparadise8 , @RiverSeal , @Glisten , @ENKELI , @creative_writer , @Blackbird11 , @ArraDreaming 

Been awake since 1 am this morning so today has been a couch 🛋 day for us , we have watched 👀 3 movies 🎬 during the day 

I had a teary moment earlier 😢 

[ENKELI]

@Birdofparadise8 you are an absolute angel. Thank you for you love and kindness. 

You truly are a princess 💕💐👸👑

[ENKELI]

@Former-Member thank you for your love. You are a beautiful soul and always say the sweetest things 💕💐🦩