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26-06-2020 10:43 PM
26-06-2020 10:43 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
That's what I said to her.
I said we can hang out tomorrow in my area as it's an hour away. She told me that he doesn't like me but I don't care because my concern is her safety and welfare. If she wants to hang out that's ok.
I think she understands my point. But will have to wait and see what happens.
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27-06-2020 09:35 AM
27-06-2020 09:35 AM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Thinking of you this morning @MDT Hope today goes smoothly with supporting your friend. And that you are feeling less pressure now that your time off work has been approved. Take care xx
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27-06-2020 10:43 AM
27-06-2020 10:43 AM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Thanks my friend
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27-06-2020 12:21 PM
27-06-2020 12:21 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Hi @MDT I feel for your friend. Does she have children? If they are at risk of harm then they need to be protected.
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27-06-2020 02:02 PM
27-06-2020 02:02 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
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27-06-2020 02:13 PM
27-06-2020 02:13 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Ah, ok @MDT I hope she is safe.
( lol - I have no idea how old you, or any one else is, on this site)!
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27-06-2020 03:30 PM
27-06-2020 03:30 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
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27-06-2020 05:21 PM
27-06-2020 05:21 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
I agree with all the posts on the issue re your Columbian friend.
You described exactly what I have long been concerned about. How the melting pot can be a lovely airy concept of diversity and the the exoticism of a blend of different ethnicities, but ... can also need a lot more committed working through differing understandings about life and viewpoints.
Your friend should not put you on the line at all to her ex. Even as a woman, she should have that level of honesty and courage, rather than play one bloke off against another. That can lead to more escalations and likelihood of abuse. Passion and vi olence can be close and need LOTS of CARE!
So @Former-Member Hams is a yungun and I am an old piece of fluff ... lol
Times like these sane forums need the fb new caring emoticon. Just so everybody is clear ...
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27-06-2020 05:50 PM
27-06-2020 05:50 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
Haha @MDT you are a spring chicken! I am twice your age 👍🏻
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27-06-2020 06:00 PM
27-06-2020 06:00 PM
Re: Lacking direction, unsure of what I need to do and generally just fed up.......
I agree @Appleblossom we need a caring emoji.
haha I am sure you are not an old piece of fluff- just wise. I am in the 45-55 year old age group 😉