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Re: Far and Away

I am taking it slow @Former-Member - that is the only pace I have today lol

You have a big couple of days coming up with the funeral so reach out when you need to help you get through the day Heart

Re: Far and Away

Hi @Shaz51 👋💕

 

It was easier to tag you and Darcy to this thread than repeat the post on the other one on Carers side.  I finally worked out that my unwell feeling was a detox reaction.

 

I hope you are feeling a bit better for having a rest day today.  I am sorry to hear your Mr. Shaz is sick, but it does explain how he was feeling this morning too.

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headache ✔️

nausea ✔️

flu-like symptoms ✔️

bloating ✔️

brain-fog ✔️

tender lymph nodes in my neck ✔️ --- wow @Faith-and-Hope , what do you do for it -- just reading about metabolic syndrome

good idea tagging @Former-Member  and me

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Our @Faith-and-Hope is certainly not very well today @Shaz51 and you are having a rough day too. My thoughts with you both 💜💙💚🧡💛💐🌷🌺

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It’s best to check anything medical with doctors @Shaz51 , but this is what I have learned, and checked with doctors.

 

Metabolic syndrome is apparently caused by three things (generally speaking cos there might be other factors that compound it).

 

- Lack of exercise

- Poor dietary balance

- High stress / anxiety

 

It can also have a genetic predisposition, apparently.

 

I walk a lot, most days, and lift and carry heavy art equipment, so that is plenty of exercise - checked with doctors.

 

I have a good balance with dietary intake - checked with doctors and a dietician.

 

I have high-stress and anxiety-producing circumstances, but leaving them is likely to make this side of things much worse, for me and everyone else involved - checked with counsellors with expertise in the field we are dealing with.

 

Generic factors I can’t do much about .....

 

So, what I have to do about it is work at reducing the effects of the stressors I have to deal with.  Going to uni and immersing myself in my art is one way of doing that.  Another is to see a counselling regularly and talk about what is happening.

 

I have also targeted two things that cause me difficulty and distress - trying to manage a difficult nail condition, and trying to look after my tricky hair ..... so I get help now with both of those.

 

I also get neck and back massages occasionally, because that is where I tend to store stress in my body.

 

I also listen to music, and take myself out for a coffee somewhere every day.

 

I used to catch up with friends regularly, but since we moved I have only made some new ones in my course, so being at uni ticks that box for me too.

 

I am a believer, so going to church helps me to believe I can get through this, and look for moments of joy wherever I can find them, usually in the little things.

 

How’s that for a big answer ?

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thanks for the big answer my friend @Faith-and-Hope , sending you hugs HeartHeart

I am a believer too @Faith-and-Hope , so going to church helps me to believe I can get through this,

just i have lumps turn up in my neck when i eat , going to see the doctor this week

funny -- mr shaz reminded me of my letters of check ups which i have not done yet xxxx

@Zoe7, @Former-Member , @outlander , @Maggie 

 

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That doesn't sound very good @Shaz51 so good you are going to get a check up. Keep us posted on how it goes. You have been really unwell with a lot happening for you lately my sister so I hope it is nothing serious - hugs Hon Heart

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i feel it is the same my @Zoe7 , but i will keep my apptments xxx

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Best to get checked out @Shaz51 so you can stay on top of things if there are any issues.

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How are you going this afternoon @Faith-and-Hope? Are you still in the coffee shop Hon?

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