Ive cracked tonight and booked a hotel!

[benji2705]

I feel terrible for doing this, but I need a break. 

Has anybody else experienced this scenario? 

Am i doing the wrong thing?

[JoeTheLion]

Hi @benji2705 

Welcome to the forum

Thank you for sharing. We look forward to hearing the Community’s insights and hope you feel supported.

All the best

[Lattepowered]

Hi @benji2705 i don't know much about your situation or what you are struggling with, but please know that you have absolutely done the right thing booking a hotel, if you need a breather from what feels too intense. You are simply fortifying yourself so that you can continue, and that is a very responsible thing to do. You are likely also setting a boundary for how you want to be treated, and that is perfectly OK. 

I am basically a carer for a loved one with paranoid delusions and trust me, I think about running off to a hotel all the time! Can't really though as we have little kids.

Hope things improve for you