Mental Health - Education, Support and Prevention
02-02-2018 11:01 PM
02-02-2018 11:01 PM
Hi I have just registered as am in dire need to some support and reassurance. I live in the UK and my daughter is on a gap year in Australia but her weight has declined rapidly and yesterday she was admitted as she’s at a very crucial stage. Wondered if there was anybody there going through similar as a carer. Been through hell and back the last 5 years with this and she tends to progress then relapses and the goes through the same cycle again and again. But this is rock bottom now. And especially difficult as we are so far away. And she refuses to let us come and visit so we have to give her space and request her wishes. Incredibly difficult and so so sad. Heart broken but at least we know now she is in safe hands.
03-02-2018 07:08 AM
03-02-2018 07:08 AM
Hi there @Linny6162
So sorry to hear that your daughter is struggling with an eating disorder and that you're so far away from her. That must be so hard for you! I'm wondering if you've ever attended any type of support group for carers? It sounds like you could do with some support from people or families who have gone through a similar experience. We have a helpline called Eating Disorders Victoria (EDV) which you can call too on 1300 550 236 or 9417 6598.
There's also a service in the UK that addresses support for carers https://eating-disorders.org.uk/counselling/carers-help/ which you could have a look into! Please continue to utilize this forum though as there would certainly be others who have had a similar experience.
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