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[MDT]

Evening @outlander

[outlander]

hi @MDT

[Shaz51]

helllllooooo @outlander, @MDT

[outlander]

hello @Shaz51

[Shaz51]

@outlander

[outlander]

thats really pretty thanks @Shaz51

[outlander]

im just getting over everything, just all over the shop, emotional, i just dont know anymore @Sans911 im already having mechanical problems with the car need to get it seen to and if its major ill be ringing the dealership and working something out. ill be keeping it but it is my luck, i cant be happy in this life


i moved over here, sorry i didnt want to take over anywhere (no need to answer that as i alrready know what youd say)

[outlander]

im sorry i shouldnt put this on anyone, i dont know what to do im just sorry

[Sans911]

Hmm @outlander... Yes, you'd know what I'd say about that. I know you saw the lengthy discussions Zoe7 & I had.

Damn cars hey? They can check out fine, then you drive it off the lot and boom! Hopefully it's not a big issue. Make sure you stand your ground. Be firm but fair. I've added a link below that might help you deal with the sales person. It's looks complicated and it lengthy, but it does work. Have a look at it tomorrow. It's a dbt skill.

http://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/interpersonal_effectiveness1.html

I don't always believe in luck when it comes to our lives. Things sometimes happen out of our control that we don't always expect or know how to deal with. You're feeling pretty down & negative right now, which is making you think you're unlucky.

What is happiness anyway? You It is sometimes fleeting. I would rather settle for being content.

Heres a couple of links that might help you tonight. They're not complicated at all

http://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/dealing_with_overwhelm.html

http://www.dbtselfhelp.com/html/panic_list.html