Winter solstice

[Jynx]

Ahh beans, I'm so sorry to hear that @Shaz51 what a rough gig! Waiting as well is the worst! Is this one of your kids with ADHD too? Cos then it's double whammy of nasty when it comes to the waiting game! Aww fingers crossed he gets in soon 🤞

[Shaz51]

All our  kids have adhd 

S2's daughter turned 1 today @Jynx 

Where S2 works , they have been really good , he has the week off to get ready but feeling he might have a bad week xx 

[Jynx]

@Shaz51 aww happy bday to the tiny lil tyke! You must be a proud grandma 😊

Yeah would probably be hard not to! Aww hope he goes okay with it all - the waiting and the surgery!!

I am heading off soon darlin!! Should say goodnight - congratz again on winning the Scavenger Hunt!! Chat soon 💜😉

[Shaz51]

Goodnight @Jynx and thank you my awesome friend 🧡 see you tomorrow 

[Patches59]

Getting hit from all sides is a good description of how things feel @Jynx   Circumstances that led me to being triggered really knocked me.  Everything else has jumped onto the end and keeps growing.

things to support,…. I have no idea.  Being able to talk and not left feeling belittled is a huge help.  Will take all the hugs I can.

safety plan is ok and, not surprisingly, features my 2 cats.  Would definitely be worse off without them and would never do anything to leave them

[rav3n]

just read about your S2's keratoconus, so sorry to hear!! @Shaz51 how's S2 handling it?
how are you going? 💗

[Shaz51]

thanks @rav3n , @Jynx 

@rav3n S2 had a talk to his dad last night, he is very anxious about it all 

good that he has time off from his job and not good to have time off as @Jynx would have the idea with adhd and asd 

so hoping that will be resolved quickly -- S2 knows that it will not fix the problem but something needs to be done to help 

[Dimity]

Best wishes for your S2 @Shaz51 . A friend of my mother's had keratoconus and suffered greatly... it was many years ago. 

Hope you're ok today @Patches59 @NatureLover, soldiering on.

[Jynx]

@Patches59 it's like that sometimes hey, the ol' "When it rains, it pours" adage hey. More hugs to you then my friend, and any time you want one, just tag me!! Always here for hugs and chats 😊🫂🫂

[rav3n]

ohh i see, that's tough with work!! glad he has you all to talk to and support him 💗 @Shaz51