Yes I too think marriage isn’t something to jump into; it’s something that should come along naturally, with mutuality 🙂 @creative_writer 🌺💜
Thank you so much - I had this person in my life for a relatively short time because he passed suddenly from an illness he didn’t know he had 💜
Time pressures do weigh much more on women, in terms of children, however one thing I had a friend do was store some of her eggs, so she could have children later. And my mother had my youngest brother at 43, and she herself was born from my grandmother when nana was 40, all the way back in 1943.
I mention it because sometimes, there is opportunity for some years yet 🙂💜🌺
Although I do know that doesn’t suit everyone 💜🌺
I wish I had waited much longer prior to getting married - I divorced after 18 years with someone that was hard work, basically (the person I felt comfortable with, I met some years after I got divorced).
Im really sorry to hear those feelings come up regarding disgust and shame 😔❤️🩹
I know it’s easy to say, and very difficult to reconcile, however I hope that there comes a day where you can shed that blame and shame sweetheart 💜🫂🌺
