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[Sunnyside226]

There's some crisis numbers that triggers me   

Pineapple on pizza is ok if it's on veggies @Appleblossom 

[Appleblossom]

I prefer my pineapple fresh, but it’s hard work to get the peel off. Cans are alright for pizza I guess. Did you make pizza for yourself or kids?

@Sunnyside226 @Shaz51 

[Sunnyside226]

I didn't eat any   I just had salami  @Appleblossom  

[Appleblossom]

Do you want to chat? @Sunnyside226 

I am just a Lived Experience person but I identify with autism.

[Sunnyside226]

Sure  @Appleblossom   what would you like to chat about?         

[Appleblossom]

nothing in particular. I was more leaving you an opening. @Sunnyside226 I read earlier in this thread you had looked after 3 kids for a while.

[Sunnyside226]

Yes I did   it was hard,   I haven't seen them in a while    

It may be my fault @Appleblossom   bad stuff with my sibling and I 

[Appleblossom]

Not sure fully what happened @Sunnyside226 but from what I read you were thrown in at the deep end with 3 littlies. Sounded like you did your best, with stress all around. Responsibility is tricky for others to judge and honestly imho… people shouldn’t judge til they at least walked a mile in someone’s shoes. Guilt is tricky too. It can motivate us to good action… and it can paralyse us.

[Sunnyside226]

I don't mind having the kids. It was for a long period of  time I didn't know what to do      the kids were screaming. A little which overwhelmed me     but I made it  out alive      

@Appleblossom    

[Appleblossom]

At least you are still here. @Sunnyside226 

You seemed to do a heap for them, so no wonder you were exhausted and overwhelmed. It’s 24/7 on call and stress. No matter what anyone says. Hold dignity for yourself. Your brother was lucky you stepped in and cared so much. I know what it is like having too much responsibility thrust upon me.  My tablet is playing up and getting screen freeze…