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17-01-2020 08:08 PM
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17-01-2020 08:54 PM
17-01-2020 08:54 PM
Re: not feeling good
Hi @BlueBay
You can tell a possible future employer you are in hospital but they will ask what for and having BPD is something better kept to yourself - it can skew your job prospects
I know that work-place discrmimation - but it happens - and it's not fair
But it would't be lying if you told them you had depression - you could say that
But there are somethings better kept to yourself - but also they will mostly ask about your health and it would be wise to admit to asthma etc - and yet it is possibly that this could be a probem but less so that BPD
It can be a hard task - looking for work when you have health issues
And what I said about your needing to take your health issues seriously is that you need to take care of your health first - and I think you have worked that bit out by now - I am just explaining my post. Going to hospital is meant to help you recover from what has been a really hard year for you - one thing after another - and you have done well
And caring for ourselves is something we all need to do all day every day - it doesn't matter if we are alone or caring for a family - we put our needs first and this means we are better to care or other people and when we do things for other people out of love rather than out of duty then we do well for everyone - including ourselves
I can't make my point clearly enough - you need to put yourself first and heal yourself the best way you can and only you can do it
Dec
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17-01-2020 09:00 PM
17-01-2020 09:00 PM
Re: not feeling good
Yeah @Owlunar I would never say I have BPD. No way.
If I have to say something I'll say depression.
Thsnks for explaining. I do get it.
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17-01-2020 09:32 PM
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17-01-2020 09:43 PM
17-01-2020 09:43 PM
Re: not feeling good
Idk anymore @Flying_Hams
got angry with hubby
Now I'm crazy and want to self harm and more serious stuff
I can't do this anymore
I'm over been like this
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17-01-2020 09:52 PM
17-01-2020 09:52 PM
Re: not feeling good
Hi @BlueBay
I am very sorry to learn that you are wanting to hurt yourself this evening. I really encourage you to keep safe and use your safety plan. Please reach out for support off the forum if you are needing help to stay safe.
take care
Whitehawk
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17-01-2020 10:04 PM
17-01-2020 10:04 PM
Re: not feeling good
Hoping to stsy safe @Whitehawk
But not sure thst will hsppen
Pressure to do it thiugh
im exhausted
bed
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17-01-2020 10:09 PM
17-01-2020 10:09 PM
Re: not feeling good
You dont need to do that to yourself.
It's a tough ride atm. You are going well.
I understand it's hard my friend. It does get like that.
You are beating yourself up though.
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18-01-2020 08:32 AM
18-01-2020 08:32 AM
Re: not feeling good
Thanks everyone for support last night
I'm panicking a lot
i feel my body is racing and shaking
I can only deal with one thing
I can't cope with too many things
I need all this to stop
negative thoughts are here right now
so much I could go and do
why
im a child agsin crying for my dad
i want a hug
im numb I miss my routine of life
never thought I'd miss wirk but I do
ive got nothing right now
I can't think
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