Breakup

[unicornponypop9]

Hi, in july last year i ended things with my partners of a year due to not being able to community anymore and i felt trapped and controlled. We did no contact up until a month ago and he told be that he moved on, i was okay with it at first and im happy for him but i feel awful like i just want to talk to him but now he wants more space im not sure what to do and how to feel i feel like im reliving this breakup all over again 

[RiverSeal]

Hey @unicornponypop9, thank you for sharing your experiences with the Forums!

Sounds like you are going through a tough time at the moment with your breakup. You are demonstrating your resilience by reaching out to your peers, as it's not easy to be vulnerable. 

I have had my own challenging breakups in the past, so I can relate to how you are feeling at the moment. I'm curious about what you do to cope with how you are feeling about your ex-partner? I know from my own experiences that distraction worked well for me and finding things to take my mind off them. 

I encourage to continue to reach out to the community and explore this with your peers!

Take care

RiverSeal 

[tyme]

Hey @unicornponypop9 ,

Thank you for sharing. Seeing you broke up with your partner last July and you are still experiencing challenges related to the breakup, is it worth talking to a professional about it? They may be able to work on ways to move forward and look after yourself.

What are things you enjoy doing in your free time?

[Dk5]

That's pritty tough i guess but if you have made the right decision for yourself which would have been hard to begin with. Stay... it will surely get easier. "Plenty of fish in the
sea"