Looking after ourselves
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20-07-2018 07:57 PM
20-07-2018 07:57 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Mum.and Dads sign went up same time as ours. We have our first open house midday tomorrow.
We did not get everything I wanted done but we have achieved so much I cant complain. I recon it is looking pretty good.
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21-07-2018 12:53 PM
21-07-2018 12:53 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
@Determined hoping open inspection went ok (crowd control req'd???)
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21-07-2018 03:02 PM
21-07-2018 03:02 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
No crowd control required @Former-Member but the agent was pleased with the response this morning. Just have to wait to see what comes of it in the next couple of days. 😊
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24-07-2018 01:59 PM
24-07-2018 01:59 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Quick check in @Determined
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24-07-2018 08:09 PM
24-07-2018 08:09 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
All quiet here at the moment @Former-Member
Everything is coming together around the house. No further news re interest in buying our house but there are some people coming back for another look at mum and dads house later in the week. Darling is getting quite anxious and worrying about weather both houses will sell or not but relatively speaking holding together well.
We have another couples counseling appointment tomorrow. This one will be individual discussions so I hope that goes well. There is potential for some emotional fallout there I fear but trusting it may lead to some positive growth for us both.
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24-07-2018 08:10 PM
24-07-2018 08:10 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
How are things for you @Former-Member, and mr D, are you getting close to heading home?
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24-07-2018 09:14 PM
24-07-2018 09:14 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Back home now @Determined
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24-07-2018 09:16 PM
24-07-2018 09:16 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
Trust Mr D is more settled now you are home @Former-Member
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25-07-2018 12:11 PM
25-07-2018 12:11 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
@Former-Member I was going to comment on the topic Tuesday thread but it was closed before I got back to it.
I have to admit I am feeling a little sulky and resentful after last nights discussion (to do with me not the content or what anyone has said). I just wanted to say I agree with your last comment. I would be interested to hear how people with loved experience view that question with no intention of causing offense to anyone.
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25-07-2018 12:15 PM
25-07-2018 12:15 PM
Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.
I am disappointed I missed the discussion from the start because there were questions I would like to have asked around copeing strategies.
Like you mentioned for me anything outside of marriage is not negotiable.