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Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Definatly locals clearing out @Smc that is the problem. Same thing happened last lock down.

Tourists fair enough wanting to get home but locals should stay put I recon. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

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Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Been a big week here.

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

You coping @Determined?

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

In a scattered kind of way @Smc 

Definitely low levels of tolerance and concentration atm. 

Have had a couple of goes putting some thoughts down here but come back and delete because I don't want it to fall into the too much info category. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Smiley Frustrated Yeah, know what that's like.

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Hopefully we will have a better idea on what is going on after Wednesday.

News we recieved on Friday was encouraging. 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

Ok so I think I can now share a little bit without getting as emotional.

 

We found out recently that our S3 has a form of brain tumor 🥺

 

Have had different specialist reviews over the past week and now are confident that it is benign and not causing any ill effect.

It was picked up in milestone screening process related to genetic risk. 

 

This is great news (the benign and no ill effect bit)  as any form of treatment carries functional risk. Certinally at the moment risk associated with any intervention outweighs any precieved benefit.

 

It does however require regular checks and screeing indefinatly as there is a small risk that the status may change. 

 

There is an equally small risk that it may even go away by its self. Wouldn't that be nice. 

 

 

Re: Supporting my wife who lives with Borderline Personality Disorder while maintaining self care.

❤️ @Determined 

It would be very nice ..... 🙏

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